The always insightful Dr. Seth Meyers addresses one of the biggest issues women deal with (and struggle with) when it comes to men. Read on for the relationship expert’s advice about how to handle the guy who says he’ll call, but doesn’t. When He Doesn’t Call: What to Do When a guy doesn’t call – say it with me- he’s just not that into you… Right? Well I firmly believed this for a while but now I’m gonna have to say that’s not always the case. Through the years I, like most of you, I’m sure, have found myself in those infamous and utterly maddening. First he texted a lot, nice date, but short and he just dates them all he said. Then it took long so I sent him: hey I get the impression you didn’t like it that much but hey at least once in my life I had a great date hahahahaha. i like this guy and he knows it and my cousin asked him out for me but he said that we’re in the friend zone but he said that i’m warm and when ever he talks to me his eyes glisten in the light and he always flirts with me he told me i was pretty but won’t say yes to when my cousin asks him out for me. Besides smileys in text messages, bright colors, shiny objects and shoes (not necessarily in that order), women LOVE titles. 😀 If they mess with a guy long enough, they’re going to want to define their relationship with some kind of word, such as “girlfriend” or “fiancee” or “wife”, etc. At The Borderline … All beginnings are lovely – or so the sage proclaims. Relationships per se are difficult. Two individuals come together – attraction, lust, love, personality styles, personal and family histories, attachment, and lifestyles collide – and there you are in the middle of a daring, challenging, and steamy relationship. When it comes to dating, one of the most frustrating things ever has to be when you’re talking to a dude – and out of nowhere, he stops answering your texts. Or, he says he’ll call and he doesn’t. Basically, whenever he doesn’t call or text you back can drive you CRAZY. Ugh. You know that dating after 40 (or at any stage of life, for that matter!) is not exactly a rose garden every moment. When you appreciate the same is true for the men you date, it will go a long way toward building compassion and, in turn, building relationships. There’s something uncomfortable we all need to talk about. This is for all you women out there in a relationship with a man who does not try to have sex with you at least a few times per week, if not daily. Kris Swiatocho. Kris Swiatocho is the President and Director of TheSinglesNetwork.org Ministries and FromHisHands.com Ministries.Kris has served in ministry in various capacities for the last 25 years. An accomplished trainer and mentor, Kris has a heart to reach and grow leaders so they will in turn reach and grow others.